a haiku about kingdom hearts:
oh my fucking shit
heal me god fucking dammit
for fuck’s sake donald
well, she was two months on the 7th, but meh.
- she’s teething already! lucky us, right? she has two bottom teeth pushing through. it’s brilliant that she’s not even old enough to grab toys and chew on them, so she’s constantly chewing on our fingers.
- she smiles loads now! when she sees us or hears our voice.
- she’s in 0-3 month clothes now. bye bye cute newborn sleep suits!
- last time she was weighed at 7 weeks she was 10lb something.
- she’s needs to be moved up to size 3 newborn nappies.
- she loves her baths in the big bath with mommy. she’s a little water baby.
- she can hold her head steady.
- if she hangs onto our hands and pull her up, she can hold herself up for a minute or too. she’ll be sitting up in no time! aha.
- she’s sleeping really well at night. from about 2am to anywhere between 9am-12pm.
- she’s on 7oz every three hours. she’s a hungry baby :|
Please, please, please, everyone reblog this. Please. I’m begging you.
Not from Canada but pretty sure some of my followers are.
Just rb… it takes two seconds of your day and could save a child’s life.
i’m buying my 3DS on tuesday.
i don’t think i can wait until christmas to play…
watching boys get out of the pool like
Watch what you say here on Tumblr. There’s this one fandom…
did someone say pool
i know already posted it before but i just posted it on a forum and it’s a lot more in detail then the one i posted when she was born. for anyone how’s interested.
my parents are buying us our christmas decorations as a christmas present for me!
i’m so excited, we had none last year but it didn’t matter as we were going away for christmas anyway, but since we’ll be staying here this year it just makes it less depressing!
and with it being amelia’s first christmas. i know she won’t remember but at least on pictures it’ll look more christmassy!
my boss has like 3 degrees in different fields from the university of alabama
she works at walmart and lives in her van
you know, i was sitting with amelia earlier, and i was thinking to myself, my thoughts on being a mother now.
she’s two months old in a couple of days, i still can’t get my head around it sometimes. yes it’s so hard sometimes. when she was first born we struggled. we have no family here so it’s not like someone could watch her for an hour and give us a break. it’s all just me and tim. so we argued a lot. i guess it didn’t help her at all. i hate the fact it rubbed off on her. but we’ve learned how to deal with things now.
yes there are still hard times. like earlier, she was crying and crying and i could not do a thing to help her. i had to hand her to tim. i just couldn’t deal with it, it made me so upset to see her like that.
but then about an hour ago she was sitting on me and i was telling her how i can’t wait until she’s a bit older, and we can go to parks and play together, and she was just smiling and cooing away.
sometimes i do wonder if my life would have been easier if i never had a child, but as soon as i see her smile i know i’m so stupid. she’s the best thing to ever happen to me, and i can’t imagine my life without her.
i love being a mummy. i can’t wait to spend the rest of my life being her mum. i’ve struggled so much sometimes. but she makes everything so worth it.
she’s my little princess and i’d give her everything in the world if i could.
well i told tim about it and here how the convo went…
tim: yeah i have one.
me: go on then.
tim: i was at school with a boner, and needed a wizzle, so i was like miss, miss let me go. so i stood up quickly and BAM! the table flipped.
*facepalm* my boyfriend is so silly :’)
the notes. tim think’s he’s some sort of god.
this makes me so sad, i used to have a rottie pup. his name was alfie, i used to have a huge fear of dogs, but my parents brought the little guy home one day, he was the most loving pup ever, i loved him so much, he was always by my side.
but my mom started work and me and my sister were too young to be left with him, so he didn’t get as much attention as he should have so they gave him away.
i couldn’t go with them to take him. they said he resisted so much as if he knew. the following day my parents rang up the place and they said they had found a place for him already. and my parents said that night they both wanted him back the night they game him away.
i burst into tears, shouting at them, ‘then why didn’t you go back for him?’
i often wonder where he is now. my best friend. i have a giant rottie teddy wearing his old collar. to this day i still miss my little pup so much.
she was so brave. she screamed for a few minutes afterwards, i wanted to cry.
but she’s all snuggly and fast asleep now. bless her.
Essex social services obtained a High Court order against the woman that allowed her to be forcibly sedated and her child to be taken from her womb.
The council said it was acting in the best interests of the woman, an Italian who was in Britain on a work trip, because she had suffered a mental breakdown.
If you are not absolutely terrified and outraged by this you are wrong. The precedent this sets put every person on earth in danger.
oh my god read the article this is FUCKING HORRIFIC. she got back on her bipolar disorder medication and is in recovery but they won’t give her her child back “because of the risk she might relapse”. What you’re fucking saying with that is that mentally ill people shouldn’t even be allowed children even if they’re safe and well *just in case*, that we’re a permanent threat to ourselves and others even when we’re in treatment and recovery and living a stable life. I am FUCKING LIVID
Over a fucking panic attack. I’m fucking serious, all of this over a single panic attack. They took her baby in the most horrific way possible because she had a fucking panic attack.
From the Article:
She suffered a panic attack, which her relations believe was due to her failure to take regular medication for an existing bipolar condition.
It’s worth noting, that it’s very common for people on psychiatric medication to go off of their meds if they become pregnant, because of risk of side effects.
I bolded the above. I wanted there to be no one to think that she was being irresponsible for not haven taken her meds regularly. She did it for good reason, for the health of her own baby. And she got punished for it.
i fucking cant
So she did what was best for her kid, has ONE SINGLE PANIC ATTACK WHICH IS A THING THAT CAN HAPPEN TO ANYONE WHETHER THEY HAVE A MENTAL ILLNESS OR NOT and decide that they can literally violate her body in a horrific manner and take her kid away. But she’s the dangerous one.
Terribly sad. I hope this gets worked out in her benefit.
I can’t even imagine how terrifyingly awful that situation had to have been. Forcing a woman, against her will, to undergo sedation and then waking up in pain, without the fetus you’ve been carrying for 9 months? That’s beyond the pale. How much do the rights of an unborn fetus circumvent the rights of a full-grown adult? How much do we have to other the mentally ill, treating them (us) as less than human? She was literally treated like a breeding animal, with no cause of concern for her safety, mental health or well-being. Fuck. Fuck.
This is literally the stuff that horror movies are made of.
When K was relating this story to me, I couldn’t believe it until I read the article for myself. Have we really gotten to the point that a woman who, even just from the stress of being pregnant, has a panic attack can legally have her baby ripped out of her body and be thrown into a mental institution? Did we slip back into the 19th century, because I don’t recall any horse-drawn buggies going by outside.
This is why we need mental health reform. This is why we need women’s rights. This is why we need to treat fellow humans like fucking humans, not livestock to be cast aside when they seem a little “off.”
i went off my meds when i was pregnant for the fear of it effecting Amelia. but stories like this is what made me not want to get help for my pnd due to the fear they’d take her away from me. i hate humanity sometimes.